The Most Important Skill for Being a Good Lover

Self Worth

The Most Important Skill for Being a Good Lover

Ahh, sex. It is the backbone of our society. Practically everyone is doing it behind our back and odds are, so are you. Sex has got to be the only "secret" that is constantly in our face. Thinking about how encompassing, important, painful, fun, confusing, etc., it can be, it's no surprise there exist hundreds of articles with basically this...[ read more ]

Why We Can’t Feel Better.

I have always loved the popular phrase, “It takes a village to raise a child”. As far as I can tell, this phrase is the product of African cultures, but the idea is universal. Not so long ago it literally took a village to survive. If farmers were not able to harvest their crops, people did not eat. When a...[ read more ]

What’s wrong with, “If I can’t love myself, how can I expect others love me”?

Porter Macey Ph.D., LMFT. Clinic Director July 12, 2020 “If I can’t love myself, how can I expect others to love me”? As a therapist who focuses on relationships, I have heard this phrase a lot. Even as a young child I recall people using this sentence as advice. It seems like for the most part, people generally view this...[ read more ]